Do you know that the general belief that the bigger the size a man’s member is, the better no longer thrives? No, it really doesn’t. Or of what use is an 11″ member that can only cause damages?
See, no woman claps for any man, who is endowed underneath but cannot really put the instrument to the best use. So, it’s time to stop brooding over your small member and find a way round the issue. Like the Biblical lines, this week, we offer some tips to allay your fears and anxiety. So, we say, just come and let us reason together. In the opinion of sex therapists, men whose members are on the smaller side shouldn’t feel deprived in anyway. Instead, they should just take some time out to discover the secrets attached to having great sex with their peculiarity. They should accept themselves the way they are and make the best out of it. As far as their studies have revealed, great sex is all about finding the right positions that are tight and secure.
However, you, as the main player, will be doing yourself a high level of disservice to choose a crazy position that makes your instrument prone to slip out or won’t fill your woman up.
It is with this in mind that we have come up with some positions that’ll have you and your woman banging to your hearts’ delight, size be damned!
The doggy
Forget about the odd name and feelings that comes with its mention, this style is one of the definite fun and naughty sex positions that just makes you feel like a naughty boy getting it on with your equally naughty girlfriend. It’s also one of those magical positions that will make your member feel bigger than it actually is.
That’s because the style allows you go fantastically deep and puts you in complete control. You can employ the classic face down position, or have your partner lay flat on her stomach for an easy take from behind. You wil definitely thank us for this.
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Reverse cowgirl
This position is basically girl on top with her spun in the opposite direction. You will this way have her grounded instead of bouncing up and down. She’ll be able to get as much fantastic stimulation while never having to risk coming too far up and squashing your most prized possession!
For a great variation of reverse cowgirl, have your woman extend her arms to your calves and her legs to your shoulders. You will be glad you did.
Spooning, legs up!
So it’s not the most exciting-sounding position, but it is a very romantic position that’s great for those men who edge toward the small side. Start off in the spooning position, and then move both of her legs up, almost like the fetal position. This will narrow her inner angle and help prevent slippage.
Doggy mountain
Similar to doggy style, prop your lady love’s torso and arms face down on a sturdy stack of pillows, and prompt action from behind. Try to lean forward, touching your front to her back. The pillows act as a great prop to keep the two of you stable, allowing your hands to go wandering to her two major fun areas. For a tighter feel, have her squeeze her thighs together while you thrust.
Cowgirl slide
Have your girl be on top and then kick-start the job. Once you’re securely in, have her lean forward, so her uppermost are against your chest, and have her extend her legs downward so she’s completely sprawled out on top of you. This allows for a tighter hold and great clit stimulation if she rocks up and down as you penetrate her.
The butterfly
“This position is flirtatious, adventurous, and feels oh-so-good for both partners,” says Alice Ray, a sex therapist. With you standing, have her lay on her back on a table or mattress that’s lower than your groin. Grab her bum and tilt her up until she’s high enough to have you in. This tilted angle allows for great G-spot explore, and if she squeezes her thighs, you’ll actually get a tighter thrust. I tell you, she’ll feel way more filled up than before.
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Legs on shoulders
Go the way of the missionaries putting her legs up on your shoulders. This allows you to take total control and thrust in deeper. Many women love this position as well, as you are free to fondle with her delicate area inner or grind your pelvis against it, all while stimulating her G-spot. Plus, if you’re into feet, this is a fun and sexy position for a little toe sucking.
Splitting bamboo
For this position, have your girlfriend lie on her back with one leg flat on the bed and the other bent upwards. Straddle her thigh and get started with the job, lifting her other leg up over your shoulder. This will allow for extra pressure sensations and deep thrusting.
Last but not Least – be confident!
Your attitude will have everything to do with how your sexual performance is portrayed to your partner. So, you’re not exactly the “tallest man” – who cares? If you appear confident about your skills, even if you’re just faking it, your girlfriend isn’t going to think or remember whether you are big or small.
In short, if you will make a conscious effort to try any of these tips, you will be beating flat the saying that, “It’s not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean!”
Just show your woman that you’re a capable lover, and let her know that you have an idea of what to do exactly to give pleasure to the two of you at all times.
