Unlike men, a man’s nakedness really doesn’t freak an average woman. I mean they are less aroused by a naked male body than they are by depictions of actual sex activity.
However, when a man is naked, there are some details that a woman looks for. They are actually what will end up setting her on fire for you, even before you touch her. The question here is how much of these details do men give thoughts of? Let us examine them so that when next you try to get closer to her and she keeps singing ‘I-am-not-in-the-mood song’ in your hearings like some buzzing bees, you should know that the fault might be entirely yours. This is a peek inside her brain when you’re butt naked.
She’s checking out your hands, especially your nails
Getting frank with you, a woman pays a curious attention to your hands, even before you are totally naked. The thing is, you will soon be all over her with those stuffs and she’s just scanning them again. She wants to know if they are clean. Believe me, nothing turns a neat and stylish woman off than some dark, dirty nails, rough hands, sweaty ones. Sex therapists say, many women think a guy’s hands are sexy. But why do they feel so? “We imagine them all over our bodies and that can be a turn-on or a turn-off, depending on how they look,” says a lady. So, isn’t it important that you pay attention to basic grooming and trimming?
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She’s also looking at your toenails
You may think they do not see your feet too often, but rough feet don’t feel nice between the sheets and this, they are at times, on the lookout for. So, consider a pedicure. I must confess that even a not-too-good-looking guy will impress her woman with a well-pedicured feet.
State of your manscaping
Most women nowadays are hoping for some manscaping down there. It can improve accessibility, and also may increase your sensitivity. Do you trim or shave, or let it go wild?
Your choice of underwear
Women like certain kinds of undergarments on their guys, just as you do on your gal. Some like briefs, some boxers, and some boxer-briefs. They are excited by some colours too. If you want to know how best to impress your lady with your underwear, ask what she likes. Meanwhile, wearing none before coming to bed makes a man appear very crude and unappealing, so, never think of an escape route. A cute underwear will set a woman on fire any day.
She’s hoping you smell good
Whether we like it or not, smells and sex have a very intimate relationship. So, If you’re smart, you’ll borrow this tip. Ensure to have an alluring odour and you will be endearing your woman to yourself.
Just don’t mask your natural scent completely. “Pheromones – these are incredibly important indicators of a woman’s attraction to you,” says sex and relationship expert, Comfort Adeniyi. “When humans mate, our immune systems combine and create hopefully stronger ones in our offspring.” So, she will be attracted to a man whose biology smells good to her.
“If you don’t smell right for her, you will put her off but if you do, you make her weak long before you come near her,” says Adeniyi.
She wants to know how you feel about her looks
A woman is always looking out for your impression about her nudity. So, once her clothes come off, she’s watching your countenance closely. This, quite frankly, is a serious issue to her more than anything else. It is important that you speak to her with your eyes lustfully running them all over her body, and sending a pleasing expression on your face. Besides, speaking with your eyes, it won’t be bad making a sexy compliment to put her at ease, that will really do a lot of wonders.
She wishes the lights are dim
For a feel of more comfort, a woman desires that environment to be cool and not to be brightly lit. So, ensure to have a dimmed light of any colour other than white or yellow. Total darkness, however, should be out of it. The reason is simple, no one feels confident and sexy in bright light. Even with the dimmed light, she’s more likely to notice that mole on your back, tan lines, your knees but still, she’s far more forgiving than you think. Women are more attracted to faces than bodies and tend to fall for the man behind the body, rather than the body itself.
She’s looking to see if you have an erection
This is not as if she expected something different but she actually wants to know if she turns you on. If you do not have an erection, she thinks she is at fault. If you are, she is excited at that influence she has on you. If nothing’s happening downstairs yet, laugh it off and assure her so that it does not just ruin the fun.
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She’s checking out how big you are
Who says size does not matter? According to a 2013 study published in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Science, it does but other factors, such as height, body shape, and flaccid penis size all impacted the women’s answers. Although it is not just all about size but no woman is excited by a small member, no one.
You do not have to be too heavy but she wants to be sure you are worth the while. “It’s not true that women love men with large penises. It often makes sex uncomfortable, even painful,” says a sex therapist. “If you’re average size, feel reassured. Even if you’re undersized, don’t panic.”
She’s wondering if you are man enough to take her
No matter how kind and generous you may be, women often want a strong, dominant man in the bedroom. Your good look notwithstanding, at this moment, she’s sizing you up in that regard. “Forceful sex is the number one sexual fantasy across different cultures,” observe experts. If in the course of the game, you are able to hold her hips down firmly so she can’t move and you touch specific places that makes her scream, then you will get through her and make her look forward to more of such days.
She’s sensing your confidence
A good man usually knows his way around any woman whether he is meeting with her for the first time or not. If you prove her right in this regard, you just send a message to her that you are sexy.
She’s seeking eye contact
Real men don’t dodge direct gaze from their women. As a matter of fact, it is part of being sexy and smart. When you refuse to take your eyes from her, you make her burn with passion and hunger for you.
Guys, I will just rest my case here. A word, they say is enough for the wise. These are more than one word. Catch yah!
