There is this general belief that promotes skinny women above curvy ones. It says they are shapely and more presentable, like the acclaimed “figure eight” best for red carpet models and celebrities. So, every girl, no matter the age cannot but rush for that diet to “keep in shape.”
Quite, quite interesting. So much that many desperate but unfortunate ones have had to lose their precious lives untimely while in search of the so-called “perfect shape” either during or after some surgical attempts.
As far as society is concerned, the fleshy ladies are undesirable because of their excess fat here and there. Because of this notion, women in this category, also feel insecure and develop cold feet when amid the “shapely” ones, whereas the fatty babes in this African world of ours are the real women. Robust, mature, ripe, and handful are some adjectives right to describe them. They are rare gifts of nature at your disposal that you have been taking for granted.
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The truth here is aside from the fact that some findings have attested to curvy women as being more advantageous for procreation, experts in physiology have again said they possess certain assets that make intercourse more amazing for them and their partners.
If you are in doubt, come with me on this week’s exposition on the goodies that come with having a chubby woman as your lover.
They are cushions for pushing.
Whether you will believe this or not, there are certain sex positions more appealing to men that are only achievable with plus-size ladies. For instance, the doggie, girl-on-top, and even missionary styles feel better on men when their partners are fleshy. This is because the male pelvis feels more comfortable with a curvier woman. The thing is the impact of his thrust is absorbed by curvy women, giving him more energy for further harder strokes with minimal risk of injury for both partners. This is not the case with skinny ladies whose pronounced pelvic bones stand the risk of injuring the two. I don’t think there is a position that lovers engage in that wouldn’t bring the pelvis of both partners to close together. A man who spoke from experience told yours faithfully that he doesn’t have to consider the level of the intensity of his thrusts once he is with a fleshy woman. His words: “I don’t think I can cope with a skinny woman in bed. They tend to be bony and unable to take as many thrusts as curvy women can, so, why should I go for an option that won’t allow me to have enough field to play?”
In short, curvier women, to most men, are naturally given to handle deeper, longer, and more intense strokes, whichever way they come than skinny ones. They are indeed the cushion that men need while at the “deed”.
They are a huge attraction to men.
Naturally, men, being the way they are wired are visually stimulated. But for very few, they love women with outstanding features. The mere thought of him being the envy of his friends when his curvy partner moves around with her larger breasts, wide hips, and big butts is enough sex appeal to him.
This fact alone can cause an erection right from wherever the opening place they are till they get the chance to be alone. Curvy women have the best visual motivation, that slim ladies can’t challenge.
Their bodies are amusement parks.
Chubby women’s bodies appear a large surface where men can have enough fun. Unlike their slim counterpart, whose bodies limit men, curvy women offer more to explore. Such major erogenous zones as her butt, boobs, hips, and thighs are areas that when touched right, arouse sexual energy. If you are into what is called “body worship”, that is a love to worship body parts like legs, feet, and asses through good caressing, licking, sucking, kissing, and rubbing these parts, if you like, curvy girls’ bodies will give you enough room. I mean with them, you are sure of a field day. Mind you, body worship arouses both partners.
This category of ladies also has the right bodies for breast sex. This may be new to many couples but it is worth exploring. It is another form of foreplay and a way to bring a sweet twist to your romance. All of these variations are best enjoyed with curvy girls. In short, curvy ladies are blessed with a body of rare fun.
Their shape enhances certain sex positions.
Unlike slim or skinny women, curvy ladies are better off with some sex styles. “They are like the fluid that moves at just one prompting,” says a Clinical Sex Therapist, Dr. Olu Denis. The movement of their body parts during certain sex positions, such as girl-on-top and doggie, at each thrust of their partners, drives the latter crazier. “When they shake, jiggle or ripple those endowments, it drives a man wild, causing his sexual energy to rise while becoming more aroused,” Denis stated.
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Another appealing feature of the doggie style is the sound that comes from a large bum when slapped against a man’s pelvis. This again sets a man on fire. The arousing sound comes only from a curvy woman, not from slim ones.
They’ve got more to grab onto.
These feelings go a long way for guys when making love. Honestly, only a few of them like them bony.
With curvy babes, you are confident that you are dealing with an adult.
“Besides having more skin to fondle when having fun with them, they don’t make you feel like you are sleeping with an under-age,” observes Denis.
All you need as a plus-size is to go for loads of confidence.
Feel good with your big ass, your breasts, and the soft skin on your stomach.
Allow him to grab, squeeze, and suck the extra skin. It’s a total turn-on for him. Come up with certain moves and positions that might play up these assets of yours. I mean go the extra mile to capitalise on them. They are your endowment, why should you be ashamed of them?
They’re better cuddlers
Of course, they are blessed with more flesh than the slim ones, so, they give their partners more warmth.
Apart from this, we all know that curvy babes are generally the preference of men in Africa. An average African man wants her woman fleshy for handling. Until recently, slim ladies do not have much attention from men.
The man will readily tell you that he wants a fleshy woman that will not disappear into the bedsheets. And they are more awesome in bed, especially when they’re body-confident. Their curvy nature makes them cuddlier and snugglier. All that extra flesh that makes for more physical contact leads to more intimacy. This is one excellent way for a “quickie.” The extra flesh they are endowed with works for this experience. “The curvier they are, the better even for the worst hardened devil,” says a Sex Therapist, Dr. Williams Kuru.
Naturally endowed with aphrodisiac laughter
A series of findings have shown that more chubby girls, especially the ones who have come to terms with their bodies, laugh a great deal when with their men. It says they have a great sense of humour, a gift that creates a more exciting atmosphere. The same finding described free laughter as a kind of aphrodisiac. You don’t have to doubt this because everyone knows that when two lovers make so much fun while in bed and laugh more, there won’t be any room for any dullness and this will result in a no-holds-barred time out for them.
They’re at home with bigger partners
This is one good thing about chubby, curvy, fat, overweight women. Unlike their slim counterparts who get judgemental with fat or pot-bellied partners, plus-size women are very accommodating. This is true of the ones who are sex-positive and are confident about their bodies. They care less about partners who are bigger or have other body hang-ups. They don’t criticize and this usually makes men in such categories prefer them to the slim ones. They give room for free-for-all fun.
If you are a plus-size lady and you are still flogging yourself over it, this edition has given you enough reasons to stop. It’s time to quit insecurity, embrace self-confidence and exploit your nature-given assets to your advantage.
