Since most people do not fancy the use of sex toys, I tell you going the way of blindfolds is actually a cool alternative to a funkier time out.
They may be nowhere near the popularity that vibrators have but they offer wonderful erotic sexual enhancement, especially when worn by women.
According to therapists, of the five senses, the eye plays the most essential role in lovemaking to most men. This is because 90 per cent of them, if not all, get turned on by what they see. They appreciate, notably, women in sexy outfits, curvy wears, lingeries to get them in that mood. This is further confirmed in a finding that shows that the vast majority of porn is watched by men. Men love to watch sexually charged visual images more than women.
Women, on the other hand, are largely aroused by sensual touch. It’s the feeling of intimacy that excites women, experts say. While this does not, in any way imply that women do not appreciate good looking men, it is simply emphasising that such moves as a sensuous touch on the skin, a hot bath, spa treatments, a massage, and a well-mastered kissing technique coupled with the right cuddling and lots of gentle caresses all over her and not just a method that is focused on her breasts and genitals will melt the strongest woman in a man’s arms.
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This is where sex with a blindfold becomes most ideal for both of you. The feeling is often a win-win for both parties. You, as a man, get to see your woman in all her glory, and deprived of sight, she herself can focus more deeply on the excitement of being touched.
Although some men enjoy being blindfolded, which is not bad after all, we object to it because we believe that once a man is deprived of sight, like (when blindfolded), he won’t be able to see the beautiful face, the round and fully-erect breasts, the shapely butt and hips, that are meant to get him aroused. This, of course, may not be good enough. It is also not part of the deal here.
In spite of all said and painted, there are some women who still think sex with a blindfold is a child’s play.
If you are one of such and are still curious about what this is all about, with all the tips of last week, here are some reasons you should try making love with a blindfold on your face.
Fires your imagination
With blindfolds, most women, can turn inward and appreciate the power of intimate touch. The fact is once you are deprived of sight, it becomes easier to fantasize about situations that turn you on.
With its dominant-submissive element, blindfolds provide an opportunity for the one in charge to be tender and caring because the blindfolded partner is vulnerable.
A getaway any day
This is one style that is very discreet. If children, a family member, or friends happen to see your blindfold or catches you wearing it, it’s quite easy to explain. It won’t cost you much thinking or time before saying that you sleep better that way. Whereas it’s a hell of an issue if you are faced with explaining vibrators or handcuffs to your kids and even older relatives.
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It’s spicy
Varieties, we all know, is a spice of life. So, we all need a bit of spice in whatever we do, at one time or the other.
Having sex with a blindfold on is definitely kinky and will bring an unusual heat into your sexual life. It is just a little drift from your usuals and not too crazy, so you can carry your friends along.
Bail out your little fears
At some point or for some reasons, we have people who are just not comfortable in their skin and this can be an obstacle to the real fun. She is either talking about her stretch marks, big tummy, pimples and other stuff that she thinks will put her man off.
The consequence of this is usually not good on both partners. While the woman becomes rigid, the man gets distracted and only aims at reaching the end of the game quickly. Both of them are literally robbed of the real fun of the game. With blindfolds, however, seeing anything during the game is totally prevented. This reduces all inhibitions.
If for instance, you are worried about the big mirror in your bedroom, your blindfold makes you care less. This also applies to that odd part of your body that you feel uncomfortable with.
Blindfolds do not even allow you to lock eyes with your lover, so, how can you even see his countenance?
The good thing about this is that you will really let go of such thoughts, which eventually can lead to a stronger orgasm like never.
Intensifies other senses
The fact that a major sense organ is not allowed to function usually gives strength to other senses, which eventually will work for the two of you. For example, a simple touch from his fingers, brushing your thighs, goes from standard to electric in two seconds because she can’t see it coming. When you can’t see anything, all the sensations you feel, the scents you perceive and the tastes you encounter will become so much more intense and that is an advantage.
Increases trust between partners
This particular sex style has the potential to strengthen the bond between couples. Allowing yourself to be blindfolded while your man takes total charge, must have come from the heart of a trusted partner. When he earns it with each new and pleasurable move, you feel safer with him. This makes lovemaking not just better but your relationship will also wax stronger.
A total surprise package
The fact that you can’t see what your partner is about to do on you makes every little thing a surprise to you. Having sex while blindfolded is an adventure. So, use the time to bring in things such as feathers, ice, oil and make it an unusual game. The warning here is that you can go to any length to make the session pleasurable for your partner, but don’t try to let them know what’s coming. Keep them shivering with anticipation. That way the element of surprise will be maintained and the fun will be full.
It puts you in control
When your partner is blindfolded, you are basically put in the driver’s seat. So, as the pilot, you must fill your gap well by handling right her body that she entrusted to you.
Now that you know what blindfold fun is, how to go about it and why you should try your hands on it, the onus is on you to take a bold leap of faith soon.
