If you are wired like I am, you are easily bored and will, therefore, be in search of new things always. This simply means you will take delight in getting adventurous, discovering and investing in new things.
And actually, if you will be honest with yourself, you will agree with me that one area that disagrees with monotony in the African culture is marriage and the number of women a man ‘acquires’ in a lifetime.
Our forefathers were simply allergic to having a monotonous love life, so, they embraced polygamy, a subtle but made formal way of living an adulterous life without any questioning. They had (a few still do though), more than one wife under their roofs, enjoyed a variety of fun times with them at different times and at will. Huh! and you know what?
A large number of them did not only live till old age, many even outlived most of these wives. I really can’t stop imagining their source of strength. I can tell you are also ruminating over that.
Whether or not you want to admit this or not, at some point in a marriage, couples’ bedrooms turn into boredrooms.
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A one-time romantic pair suddenly would not just get excited by each other. While some of the men resort to going out in search of younger women, the women on the other hand, simply switch off their interest from the men to their children, spiritual activities among others.
But should this continue? And are we giving support to polygamy or adultery? No way. A solution, an adventure to explore is what we bring to you on a platter of gold.
You do not need to let off your guards and allow your man to be consumed with adultery, just embrace the blindfold sex style and your love life will find the spice it has lost over time.
The blindfold style of making love is weird and different from the types you have tried before and it the exact pill you need to try next if you feel your sex life is drifting towards becoming “once upon a time.”
Just as the name suggests, it is one method of lovemaking where one of the lovers gets his or her eyes covered with clean clothing and gets made love to by the other while in that position.
Forget what your mind may be suggesting to you right now, blindfold sex is far from being a game of children, it is for the mature, the adventurous.
Honestly, it just might just be the sweetest style that will ignite life, bring the lost heat into your bedroom.
Enough is enough of the routine love life you have been having for years, in the name of old age, busy schedule, contentment and other consolatory adjectives. It is time to take the heat to your bedsheets.
Making love with blindfolds does not just spice up your sex routine or create deeper trust and intimacy, it might just be your answer to the loss of interest in getting down with your boo, forget whatever your age now.
If you are still feeling lost about the topic at hand, sit back and ride with me on how to go about this particular task.
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One thing you must bear in mind about this style is that whoever is not blindfolded between the two of you is the one occupying
The driver’s seat, he or she will be in charge and should know that the entire body of the blindfolded one is entrusted to him.
With that trust, however, comes power, which can be a huge turn-on, especially for someone who’s used to being more submissive.
Blindfolding your partner changes up the dynamic in a sexy way.
Below are a number of things a woman should do with a blindfolded lover.
Go gradually
Generally, the best way towards an unforgettable love-making is secured through a calm and calculated move. Most men fail in this wise because they are usually restless once they are pumped up, but since you are in charge, go one calculated step at a time.
Try and handcuff him with something (not hurtful though). Get yourself naked and inform him of what you are about to do.
I mean, urge him to calm down for the unusual experience coming his way. Strip him to his panties but do not remove his panties because it is very important in the scheme of things here.
Now, begin kissing him from his forehead to his ankles and other areas. Just as he may have thought that would be all, spring up a surprise on him, move downwards and kiss around his major even with his pant on.
His member should be fully up by now. Do not worry, go to the next stage of the fun by bringing your nipples near his lips and ask him to suck.
Since he is blindfolded, every time he tries to do it, pull your body back and let him salivate a bit. It’s all part of the fun
Tease him more. Do the same thing by bringing your pussy over his mouth. Let him feel the wetness but never let his mouth take the charge.
Ensure to pull yourself back before he makes up his mind on what to do. In between, you can kiss and smooch him. Bring some ice cube and rub it all over his body.
You may even put one inside his panty. If you do so. Make sure you then sit on him and make him feel the heat of your pussy with the numbness of the ice.
Be more daring
One of the ways to achieve maximum fun with blindfold sex is to get very daring. By this, I don’t mean becoming or deciding to be criminal but you are to simply act up in some way.
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For this purpose, you will be needing a blunt pointless and rustless knife, which you will only point at his neck.
Ensure, however, that you do not hurt him with the knife. While poking with a knife put one of your hand inside his panty and stroke his member.
If you are daring enough, try and run the knife around his nipples, suck one and point knife on another and vice versa. You can again do the same around his member down but be very careful about it.
For this tip, you need to be a well-trusted person to your partner and you must have spoken to him about this.
Employ ice blocks, candle wax…
This tools will really help you get very kinky and weird. Just light a candle and pour some wax over his chest. After some seconds, clean it and suck the pain out from that area.
The suddenness of the hot candle wax on his bare chest with the cool effect of your mouth combined will result in the unusual love session that both of you will have after.
Blow him away
One last but not the least thing you may decide to do with him is a blow job. With his eyes covered, he will surely be excited if you do this on him especially if this was the least on his mind.
That is if you seldom do this for him. Even without a blindfold, every man derives optimum pleasure from a blow job. So, giving him a blow job while blindfolded will readily humble and gladden him sensuously.
On the other hand, opting to be on top of him, is a thriller that will be in his memory for a long long time.
Just let him be firmly blindfolded, possibly handcuffed (if you both wish) while you are at the task and you will be glad you made the effort.
Join us next week for the second edition of the topic. Catch ya!
