Since last week when we treated the above topic, my phone has become unusually busy with different comments, some of them sounded offensive while others were friendly. All the same, I decided to have them published this week.
The topic, as a way of reminding us is about these toys that are otherwise described as pleasure toys that seem currently in vogue.
Mostly popular among ladies these days, these fun toys are still perceived in some quarters as very abominable.
Below are the reactions of some men about these toys.
“As long as she is not using it on me”
Obviously, these play toys or whatever they are called are currently ruling the world of women, even some men. But going with what I have gathered about them, I wouldn’t care much as long as she is not using it on me. She can use it on herself if it will make her feel cool more with love-making and it is not hazardous to her health. But for her to use them on me, no way! It can never happen. -Lord Moses
“It is a taboo, can’t live with such a woman”
Dear Yemisi, I appreciate your observation on this particular topic but I want to believe you know these toys you are talking about here are alien to our culture. How will you say they are not a replacement to men? Please, of what relevance is a man whose woman is being sexually pleased by another thing? If it is even a man, a human being like me, it is better, a mere object? No matter how sugar-coated your explanations may sound, it is ridiculous. I simply can’t live with such a woman. -Barnabas
“Only weird women will be found using them”
Forget about civilization, my candid opinion is that only weird women will be found using these toys. And weird persons are usuall crazy, psychologically unstable. So, what business do I have with a nymphomaniac? Believe me, Yemisi, women who use them are unstable-minded. They are wierd and cannot be pleased by their men. – Christopher
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“It’s better used than engage in adultery”
Much as I really can’t stand their sight, I think it is better for a woman to use them when the need arises than going into adultery. It is safer, the woman has no fear of an unwanted pregnancy, abortion or contacting any of the Sexually Transmitted Diseases. -Gbemiga
“She should be discreet about it”
It is a bad habit that must be kept secret to her only. Neither I or any of my children should not catch her using it because I don’t know why a woman will be found im sich an act. What training will she be giving her children about this? -Mohammed
“Not opposed but not excited about it”
Although I’m not opposed to the idea it’s not something that excites me. If my girlfriend wanted to use them, I won’t hesitate to experiment with her. What I’m trying to say is that I would however like to think I satisfy her enough and she doesn’t feel the need to buy a sex toy. -Jude
“It’s sexy, adventurous”
Well, some may find it intimidating but actually I find it quite sexy and adventurous that a girl is confident enough to be using the toys.
It is not that I have experienced this with a partner before but if it pleases her, no problem. You have to experiment in the bedroom to find out what truly turns you on.
-Gabby
“It should be mandatory for couples”
I think sex toys after a few years of marriage should be made compulsory in the bedroom in the interest of couples. For us, we’ve been married for 5 years, but to be honest, we introduced sex toys to our relationship in the early days.
We thought that it would help us to keep things more interesting, so we just sat down and checked what was available online and ordered a couple of them. Now, a few years on, we still like to try it when we see something new. The best thing is that you can use them together, or solo when one of us is away.
-Dennis
