How to make her bring out boobs willingly for your pleasure
It is an open fact that men love breasts more than any other part of a woman’s body. Before this present dispensation, a large number of them could make do with women with an average or small – sized breasts. Right now, I can boldly say that 90 per cent of the men around are very crazy about big boobs. Even the ones that are still in their teens will tell you that they will never settle for a lady with smaller breasts. That is what the world has really become. It becomes more shocking when you see older men, who have even settled for a not-too-endowed wife, running and lusting after a well-endowed woman.
My question is, what exactly is the problem men have with boobs? But before I could add in pidgin English that “dem take am do una?” one down-to-earth man around answered, saying: “I don’t think I can ever survive with a woman that is not ‘boobly-endowed’ ( whatever that English means) because you can’t imagine what I do with my wife’s own. I use it as my pillow, keep warm with it, play with it; in fact, merely looking at them even after she has fed four children with them still drives me crazy.”
The issue now is as pleasurable as the breasts are to these men, how good and satisfying are they to the real owners – women?
The answer so far is, not so good. In fact, from the opinion of most women, many of these men are selfish. Once they get their pleasure whichever way they choose, they care less about the feelings of the givers.
Whereas, some women can even have orgasms from breast play alone, most men just go about it in a very crude manner. Worst and very common of their mode is that many just think sucking like babies is the only way to caress a woman’s breasts.
It is very important that men get this right. See, the fact that your woman, being an old school has never complained of your acts, does not mean she is totally happy with your sexual tactics. She has simply resigned herself to fate because those women were not raised to be as expressive in that area as today’s girls. God help you that you misbehave and she gets handled by some sexy hunks, you will be just a forgotten case.
How exactly should you go about assessing yourself in this area? Very simple. Simply ask yourself the last time your wife, your woman moaned for pleasure or willingly brought out her boobs for you to play with. Or do you think this doesn’t happen with some people? Helloooo, it does and quite regularly too.
But to help you get better from this night henceforth, try and consider these tips.
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Work with Clothing
For many men, until their wife is naked, they are not set to fondle her. What you don’t know is that commencing with the clothes on turns the strongest woman on. You don’t need to be in a rush to unclothe her breasts. Breast play can feel pleasurable even through clothing, and it can also be a nice way to tease her. Rub her breasts while her wears are still on. To evoke a sense of teenage nostalgia, put your hands up her clothing and play with her breasts over her bra. Gradually get her clothes off, touch the parts of her breasts that the bra doesn’t cover, gliding your fingertips along the top edge of her bra. You will be whaoed at her response.
Take Your Time
Even once you’ve gotten her clothes off, you can still take your time teasing her. Spend some time tracing her collarbone with your finger, then kissing along it. Touch and kiss along the sides of the breasts, without going straight for the nipple right away. This way, you will get her to scream for pleasure. But if you are the type that rushes things, you will be spoiling the mood and the feeling.
Pay Attention to the Underboob and Sideboob
Most people tend to squeeze the entire boob, or focus on just the nipple. That’s a shame, because the underboob and sideboob can both be exquisitely sensitive. The areas I’m talking about are where her breast meets her ribcage. As the names imply, the underboob is the lower part of the breast, and the side boob is the outer edge (the side near her armpit).
This area tends to respond best to delicate touch. Very gently trace a fingertip along this sensitive curve. Start at the outer edge and slowly work your way around to the middle of her chest. You can also do this with your tongue, or with light kisses.
Nipples are unique
Nipples are like a woman’s clit. Some women can hardly stand direct contact while others need very firm pressure. As with the clit, it’s best to err on the side of being too gentle, then work your way up to more pressure. Start off by lightly stroking her nipple and circling the areola (the flat section around the pointy nipple). If your partner pushes her body towards you or makes a lot of noise, try gradually increasing pressure. Or just ask her, “Do you want more?”
If she wants more intensity, try gently pinching her nipples between your thumb and forefinger. Slowly increase the pressure, and ask her to tell you when it’s too much. Or you can try pulling on her nipples. Cup her breast in your hand, and pull on her nipple with your thumb and forefinger, pulling the breast further away from her ribcage. You can also gently twist her nipples, but be careful with this move, as it’s pretty intense.
Get your mouth involved
No doubt, your lips, tongue, and teeth as well as your hands are the instruments of work here. You can lick, suck, and nibble on her breasts. Try licking the curve from side boob to under boob, or sucking or nibbling on her nipples. You can also get some temperature play involved by licking her breast then lightly blowing onto the area.
If she likes a lot of pressure, try sucking and biting on her nipples. Again, start off gentle, and gradually increase the pressure until you find what she likes.
Try something new
You can also try blindfolding her, and touching her breasts gently in different areas while you cover her eyes. Believe me, this can be real fun. Not knowing what’s coming can be a wildly intense experience. Or try using massage oil to help your hands really slide around on her breasts.
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Ask Her to Touch Them
Another way you can learn what she likes is to ask her to touch her own breasts. This can be especially hot while you’re in the middle of another activity, like intercourse or doing the fingering act. Watch the specific ways she touches herself, and try to get a sense of how much pressure she applies.
Focus on the Areola
When you feel like she’s ready and she’s making a lot of noise or writhing around with pleasure, move onto the areola, the dark-colored circle that surrounds the nipple. This area is actually more sensitive than the nipple itself. Focus especially on the upper quadrant of her breast, between 10 and 2 o’clock. Gently stroke the nipple and circle the areola with a finger, or circle the nipple with your thumb and forefinger.
Don’t Bite Unless She Asks You
Even if she’s writhing and moaning with pleasure, you shouldn’t get carried away and bite or pull her nipple. This is one error many men make, maybe for excitement but really, it is not right. While some women really may enjoy rough breast play, others do not, and you don’t want to interrupt your good time or hers by crossing that line without her consent.
Do Not Bounce, Jiggle, Honk, or Slap
Only few women want to have their boobs honked during sex. This is because so much of breast sensitivity is concentrated in the nipple; groping or jiggling will do literally nothing for most women.
Beware That Different Types of Breasts Enjoy Different Things
Researchers have found that large breasts are about 24% less sensitive than small ones. This, according to them, is probably because the nerve that transmits sensation from the nipple is stretched. So if your partner has larger breasts, you may want to spend more time stimulating the outer sides of her breasts, just below the armpits, with your tongue or fingertips.
Similarly, if she’s pregnant, nursing a baby, or on her period, her nipples will be tender. Try and be gentle so as not to hurt her.
