Every man looks forward to a woman’s downie at one time or another, for the moderate men but countless times, for the adventurous ones.
Strangely, most men do not actually devote quality time to care for that very paradise of their pleasure.
Some women confirmed this;
“Most of the men that I have been with only see that part of me as the property of their penises. They see it as an avenue of their own pleasure, nothing more,” lamented Mrs Lauretta, a secondary school teacher in Lagos.
“It’s funny and strange that men love and desire you to lick and suck their rod but see it as a taboo to do the same to our own vaggie and I’m like really? Is this also part of the men’s world stuff?” says Kikelomo, another woman.
Defending the men on the matter, however, is Mr. Jude Abiodun, a lecturer, who said “it is not that we men look down on that part of the woman. No!,No!, No! It’s a capital no! No man is complete without a woman’s pussy; how can we be? It’s just our impatience and it is our nature. We are easily and speedily aroused than women and we just always want to get it done and over with by going down there and pouring our lot. It’s really not our fault. In addition, most of us do not feel good pouring our stuff outside the place, we see such act as careless and untidy. Now, for those who can’t use their tongues in that area, I guess it may be for the thought of the peculiarity of the place, the releases and all the stuff but all of that can be dealt with some minutes before the action; it all depends on the couples involved,” he said.
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All well said and relevant, the unchangeable stand of yours sincerely is that as long as both genders use their tools to pee and the men really do not take clean up but shake off the remnant of their wee off when done, they are not also totally cleaned up to be healthily licked up.
Well, today’s business is about how women want men to massage their pussy.
Believe me, you may have massaged her other body parts but if you have not tried massaging this special part of her, you haven’t done the real thing. I tell you, it’s an effort that you will never forget in a hurry.
Otherwise known as Yoni (YO-NEE), the Sanskrit word for the vagina, the Yoni massage is a sensuous form of intimacy that builds trust between partners and brings them closer to each other emotionally and spiritually.
This particular massage, according to experts, is one that is extremely stimulating and arousing. It is not aimed at just bringing the woman to orgasm. Rather, it is to make the two lovers relax and experience real emotions.
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For the woman, the feeling may make her angry, lustful, weird, sad, or even indifference. With the Yoni massage, your sex life is bound to be greatly enriched, and you will learn a great deal about feminine sexuality.
How she wants her Yoni Massage
Get Cordial
This is very important. You both must be sure you want it and that you are both ready to play your parts.
Before starting, try and talk softly to each other, taking a deep look into each other’s eyes while hugging and kissing each other to relax well in each others arms.
Encourage Deep Breathing
This type of breathing is a type of Tantric foreplay where both lovers get bonded emotionally and spiritually. Their breathing must be deep and slow during the entire process. It must not be shallow.
Let her lie right
To get the massage right, the woman must lie on her back with one pillow under her head and another under her hips to lift up her pelvis. She should bend her knees and open wide her legs to expose her Yoni.
Position Yourself Well
The man being the giver should assume the right position to be able to give well. He must position himself comfortably between the woman’s legs with his own legs crossed. For more convenience, sit on a pillow or cushion.
Do Not Go Straight To Her Yoni
It is clear that your target is her yoni but it is wrong to head on straight to the place.Just as you have learnt that rather than sucking a woman’s nipples like a hungry baby, touch and caress her areola and other parts of her boobs even from the bra or the nightie for maximum effects, start massaging other parts of your woman’s body to encourage her to relax well for the real massage. Move on to gently, but firmly, massage her legs, thighs, stomach, breasts and arms before moving toward the Yoni. Massage the pubic bone area and then move down to the inner thigh area. Do this for at least nine times.
Apply Oil
With the right hand, pour enough quantity of a high-quality oil or lubricant on the mound of the Yoni, so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni.
Proceed to rub the oil gently on the outer lips of the Yoni at least nine times.
Do A Gentle Squeeze
Use your thumb and index finger to gently squeeze each lip of the Yoni, sliding the fingers up and down the entire length of each lip. Then, carefully repeat this process with each inner lip of the vagina varying the pressure and speed according to the woman’s preferences.
Move To The Clit
At the turn of the clit, let your touch be extra gentle as it is a very sensitive part of her.
To avoid arousing her anger, gently stroke the clitoris in a circular motion, clockwise and counter-clockwise. Then, squeeze her clitoris between your thumb and index finger. Then, insert your middle finger into her Yoni gently and carefully Gently explore and massage the inside of vaggie with your finger. Vary the speed and depth of your finger, inside the Yoni up, down and around.
Contact Her G-spot
Next is to reach out for her G-spot, which is her power point.
Do this with your palm pointing upward and your finger inside her Yoni. Bend your finger to
continue massaging, trying different speeds, pressures and motions.
But do not stop breathing and looking into each other’s eyes. Be on the lookout for a display of emotions which may come in different ways, body movement, moaning and even crying. Even if she has an orgasm, do not stop the massage, keep the breathing, and continue massaging if she wants. She may have more intensified orgasms. in intensity.
Remain Focused
You will only achieve your great aim if you keep breathing and being gentle.
One good thing about this massage is that women learn how to be multi-orgasmic.
With your enduring
patience, you will take her to the land of bliss and make her vaggie relax in there for more anytime, any day.
Make an effort guys