Generally, it is assumed that women are at the mercy of men where lovemaking is concerned. But I want to disagree here because over time and with the wide and weird exposure at the laps of everyone, girl, you can make that naked man be at your disposal, cry out for pleasure and make him crawl unto you for more.
How? By knowing and discovering your sexual straight and displaying them on him with great expertise. And need I tell you that you have all that this takes as God Almighty in His superpowers has endowed you with all.
For instance, the mouth is not meant for food, drinks and speech alone, it is also given to a lot more of sensuous activities. It is useful for kissing and can do several romantic works on a lover’s body.
Unfortunately, many of us are under-utilising this particular body part and even others.
In this edition, however, we have come up with an exposition on a variety of things you can do to turn the most hardened naked man to a crying baby in your hands. Just go through this piece carefully and learn a trick or two.
What I am saying here is that whenever you have a naked man on your laps, the following are areas of his bodies you should target.
Just Below His “P” Head
This is known as the Frenulum. It is the spot where the glans meets the shaft on the underside of the penis just below the head, and the concentration of nerve endings here, according to experts, is sometimes compared to the female equivalent of the clitoris.
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You will make him go wild when you make good use of your tongue. This is how to go about this, when giving him oral sex, let your tongue slide over that area. If you choose to make use of your hands, stroke it with your thumb while you move your fingers around the shaft. To slowly build his arousal, go back and forth between stimulating his F -spot and the less sensitive base of his penis.
His Feet
Unknown to many, the sole of a man’s foot is one of the sensitive parts of his body. They have a relatively higher concentration of nerve endings in the soles of their feet than women do. There is an acupressure point about one-third of the way down from the third toe, right in front of the arch in the centre of the foot. Pressing on this point, nicknamed the “bubbling spring,” may boost blood flow throughout the body, getting him all hot and bothered.
To make him go wild, start your foreplay by giving him a foot massage. Have a warm towel ready and then place his feet on a pillow on your lap. Use the warm towel to wipe his feet and get them warm, and then focus on this erogenous zone by taking your thumb and gently rubbing it around this spot as a transition to a more erotic kind of rubdown.
His Prostate
Wondering what this means? It is the male prostate gland, which is located about three-quarters of a finger length inside his anus and feels sort of like a walnut toward the base of his penis. For all you care, it is a hotbed of nerve endings similar to the female G spot. A gentle massage of this area can give him a powerful orgasm,” observes a Sex Therapist, David Rhilwan.
To make him go wild, your best bet is to talk to your guy outside of the bedroom before you try to finger his anus so he doesn’t get any unwanted surprises. Try bringing it up during a romantic dinner by saying you love making love with him and want to experiment even more.
You might say that you heard stimulating his prostate can trigger an intense orgasm, and see if he would be down to try it later on. If your guy isn’t comfortable with you using your fingers to gently penetrate the area, there are other ways to stimulate his prostate. One way to do this is to give some loving to his perineum, or the smooth strip of skin between his testicles and anus.
The prostate is internally located between the base of his penis and his anus so touching him on the outside of that area can externally stimulate the gland. Just have him lie on his back with his knees bent and legs spread apart, and then use your fist to apply even pressure to the area with quick vibration-like motions. Just try it and you sure will have a blast.
His Thumb
Many guys are heavily conditioned to focus solely on the genitals. If you expand his capacity to have erotic experiences throughout his entire body, you can open up a whole other world of possibility for him. The thumb is a sexy spot for a lot of guys. Sucking on a man’s thumb evokes sucking on something else, and can help him connect his mind and body during lovemaking. Start foreplay by gazing into his eyes as you kiss his hands, and then suck on his thumb as a promise for what’s to come. You will be shocked at the turn out of things.
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Where his thigh and butt meet
The crease where the top of his thigh meets his butt is a surefire passion point. But not many know this. According to experts, It’s a sensitive area and could be the reason some people like being spanked.
So, drive him wild by easing into it slowly. Do this by using your hand to stroke him, run your fingernails over the area, then build up to a gentle slap. Or, when he is lying on his stomach, try kissing a trail down his back, over his buttocks, and then gently nibbling along this fold and flicking it with your tongue before moving on to his inner thighs.
In-Between His Hips
This is called the sacrum. It is the triangular bone located at the base of his spine in between his hips (the small of his back). There are nerves in the sacrum that are linked to the genitals, so stimulating these nerves can send sensations to his manly parts. Some studies show that electrical stimulation of these nerves can trigger orgasm.
Just have him lie on his stomach and give him a massage by doing light, karate-chop type movements along his sacrum. Then, tickle him with your iced tongue in the same area. Doing this will not only stimulate those sacral nerves, but also trigger the parasympathetic nervous system which is key for relaxing, letting go, and having an orgasm.
His Nipples
Do you know that men also get stimulated by a touch of the areola area of their nipples? Start by stroking around the areola and gently tweaking the nipple with your fingers, then, begin to lick around it and suck on it, increasing pressure and gently biting it. Nipples can be twisted and pulled to great effect, too. Rhilwan also suggests trying a pair of nipple clamps when he’s turned on. It will keep blood flow in the area, increasing sensitivity and keeping them at attention. You can as well try sucking on an ice cube and then sucking on his nipples. “The contraction of his nipples due to the cold can heighten the sensations,” she says.
His Scrotal Skin
While you are giving his manhood all the loving, its commonplace to forget the two companies. For a great feel, you shouldn’t leave his balls out in the cold. The scrotal sack is the loose skin that surrounds the testicles and that’s what feels good to stimulate. For your information, the line that runs in the middle like a seam is the raphe.
Although they are not chicken eggs, you must be mild on them. Gently flicking the raphe with your tongue feels great to most men. Let him guide you on how much pressure he likes because the amount varies depending on the guy. And to get him hot, sip on very warm tea and then flick your heated tongue over this sensitive area. He’ll lose himself in the new feelings, and novelty can make for more powerful orgasms.
I must stress here, however, that because whatever is worth doing at all is worth doing well, it is important to give all these tips a try and see the blast effect on your relationship. Catch ya.